10 Female Turn Offs

Every time you approach a new woman you’re  risking  rejection, which can feel awful. But if you’re finding that  you’re  constantly striking out with the ladies, you may be doing things  that turn women off without even realizing it. Below are 10 things you   could be doing right now that make women cringe.

1. Wearing too much cologne

While  a nice-smelling cologne,  after-shave or deodorant can be very sexy and  really entice a female,  too much of a good thing can spell disaster.

2. Being Preoccupied with sex

Men who are preoccupied with sex are a huge turnoff because women want  to be  valued for things other than their bodies. Women do not want to feel as though sex is all that men want from them, and they definitely aren’t impressed by how many other women you’ve slept with, or how much your last girlfriend liked your techniques.

3. Displaying poor grooming habits

Women are not generally attracted to men with inadequate grooming, to include smelling bad, having bad breath, unkempt fingernails and wearing wrinkled clothing.

4. Using lame pick-up lines

While most  guys have the best intentions in mind when using pick-up lines, most  women  don’t like them and the only things you can be assured of using  these  bad one-offs is making a bad first impression, a slap in the face and a drink on your shirt.

5. Giving insincere compliments

Women love compliments; however, those   who have had enough experience with men trying to pick them up can spot insincerity quickly. If you make too many or too big a compliment, most women won’t believe you and will wonder what your hidden agenda is.

6. Talking about your ex

Your   first conversation on a date with a new woman should be fun and     intriguing, not consumed with emotional baggage and especially not     discussions about your ex. Women view men that can’t stop talking about    their ex non-stop as having unresolved frustrations and pent-up    bitterness.

7. Lack of confidence

Women   love being around men who display confidence and have their own life,   ambitions and goals; however, constantly listing all your faults,   feeling sorry for yourself and complaining about your circumstances are   sure fire  ways to turn a woman off and make her stay away from you for   good!

8. Calling too often

If   you want to run a woman off quickly, one of the  best ways to do it   is  to overly call and leave her a slew of messages early in a   relationship,  especially when she hasn’t returned any of your messages.

9. Displaying weird habits

Strange   ticks, picking scabs, nail biting, mumbling, looking down, constantly   licking your lips or  displaying any other weird behaviors make you   appear nervous and send women headed for the hills.

10. Being arrogant

Although   most women love strong, confident men as previously discussed, talking   too much about yourself could make you look narcissistic and lower her  interest level.

–DFTM