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5 Signs Your Being Needy

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5 Signs Your Being Needy

Women love dating men who are confident and real. They want to feel like you need them… but only if you already have your own life, your own ambitions, and your own goals. The moment a man starts getting too clingy in a relationship, a woman will run for the hills. Women are not attracted to the type of man who needs too much support, validation, and constant reinforcement from women.

Remember you are trying to attract women, not turn them off. Below are five signs that you are being needy, so if you suffer from any of these signs of neediness, you need to stop those actions immediately.

1. Overly Calling/Emailing/Texting Her

If you want to run a woman off quickly, one of the best ways to do it is to overly call, email or send text messages early in a relationship, especially when she hasn’t returned any of your messages. Or you make the fatal mistake of calling the woman you’re dating, and ask “Did you just call me?” after you receive a call from an unrecognized number.

You don’t need to check in every two hours and calling a woman should be as spontaneous as calling one of your male friends. Call or text her once and if she doesn’t respond, you can call or text her one more time. After that, you shouldn’t be calling or sending her text messages her again until she does first. Don’t waste time sitting by the phone waiting for her to call you. Being strong and not contacting her and her will spark her interest and make her call you.

2. Being Overly Emotional

The overly-emotional guy shares all his feelings with women right away, always doubts himself and needs constant reassurance about his relationship, work and friendships. Most women look for a strong partner they can lean on. So if you are always leaning on her, she might doubt your ability to do this. Remember, women want a man who is confident and independent–not insecure and dependent.

3. Always Being Available

Always being available makes women think that you don’t have a life of your own and actually lessens your own attractiveness, making you far less desirable. Being a challenge to women makes you more desirable. When you meet a woman you like, show interest in her, but ensure that you keep your regular schedule and don’t be available every single day. Don’t call so or text her too frequently and don’t always answer your phone for her. If you have plans with a friend, keep those plans even if the woman you’re dating asks you to do something that night.

4. Doing Whatever She Wants

Some men will let a woman walk all over them and then continue to be a doormat, giving up things they really value in an effort to align their lives with a woman’s wishes. Don’t be one of them. A needy man will do whatever a woman wants. Women are not looking for a man who agrees with everything they say, and you do your relationship a good bit of damage when you show yourself to be indecisive. Men who display this behavior quickly fall into the dreaded FRIENDZONE with women and simply become one of their girlfriends in a sense.

Don’t do everything she wants, even if you want to do it. Women are looking for confident men someone who can stimulate their minds and not bore them. Women are not turned on by men they can completely control. Standing up for yourself and being a man of action will lead her to respect you and find you a lot more attractive in the long run. Feel secure with yourself, believe in yourself and know you have great worth.

5. Being Too Nice to Her

Trying to please a woman all the time, showing your feelings too often and letting a woman walk all over you are clear signs that you’re needy. Overly nice guys don’t show the confidence or strength that women are attracted to. Although men should do nice things for women, they have to earn it first. Avoid giving a woman money or gifts too often and don’t be too nice or too attached until the relationship is well established.

–DFTM, Visual Cocktail


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