5 Ways To Lose Your Girlfriend

Just because you have a girlfriend doesn’t mean you will keep her. There are certain things that men can do that will instantly drive women away. Despite what you think, most women will overlook a lot of things because they want to see the best in you; however, when tiny red flags turn into big red flags, you may just be watching your girlfriend walk away. Here are some things that will drive women away.

1. Lack of Attention

There is nothing that a woman hates more than lack of attention from her man. If you are not paying her enough attention or never show jealousy, she will get upset. On the other hand, if you do pay her a lot of attention and show jealousy, she could also get upset. Find a happy medium and show your woman they attention that she needs. Plan dates for just the two of you and spend quality time just with her and making sure that she is happy and satisfied in the relationship.

Women also want to feel like their opinions and viewpoints matter to you, so ensure that you are listening to her. Even if she’s talking about things that make absolutely no sense to you, pay attention to her anyway and act like you understand. Trust me, if you don’t give your woman the attention that she wants, she is going to find it from another man.

2. Lack of Motivation

Women want men who have motivation to succeed in life and who have dreams of doing something rather than just being content where they now. A woman who truly loves you shouldn’t hold your job against you; however, if you are happy with your fast food job and you don’t have any dreams of moving up on the job ladder, you may just have to say goodbye to your woman. This also pertains to your relationship. If you are commitment phobic and never see yourself settling down and/or getting married, you are going to have a hard time keeping a quality woman around.

3. Being a Habitual Liar

If you keep lying to a woman, you will surely lose her. All women appreciate a man who presents himself as honest and trustworthy. Displaying behaviors like exiting the room when you get a phone call, not returning her calls, not answering random phone calls, emails and text messages in front of her and giving no legitimate reason any about any of these behaviors is a sure way to make a woman leave you. It’s not easy to build respect from a woman and once you do, it’s very easy to lose it. The moment your woman stops respecting you, the relationship is truly over.

4. Not Keeping Her Satisfied in the Bedroom

All men should work hard to make their women feel satisfied in the bedroom. Make it a habit to ask her what she likes and what her fantasies are and always strive to make her comfortable and happy in bed.

5. You Stop Taking Care of Yourself

If you stop taking care of yourself and being the man that attracted her to you in the first place, her romantic respect and attraction to you will drop over time. Being a challenge to a woman in a relationship will keep the attraction high and she won’t leave you.

–DFTM