The Right Moves On The First Date

What are the right moves to make on the first date that will make her want a second and third date? Here’s what to do.

1. Be Mysterious

If you want to impress your date, keep your ears open and your mouth shut. Keeping mystery in your dating means not giving up too much information about yourself. The less you tell her, the more she’ll want to know.

2. Be A Challenge To Her

Women respect men who maintain their own opinions and don’t allow themselves to be doormats. Don’t agree with everything she has to say and your date will find you more valuable and interesting.

3. Interview Her

When she begins to ask you questions, reverse it and ask her questions about life, education, work, and career goals. Let her know through your questions that a beautiful face will is not enough to keep you around and that you want a woman with substance. This will make her feel like she has to prove her value to you rather than vice-versa. Doing this will make her believe that you don’t date just any woman and that you’ve got standards.

4. Talk About Interesting Topics

The first date is not the time to discuss such as sex, religion, politics or your ex’s. Focus on good conversation starters like the weather, movies, music, careers, schools, etc.

5. Patience

Being too aggressive might make her perceive you as being a potential desperate stalker. Displaying patience and you won’t scare your date away.

Your date will be back for a second go around if you use your common sense and treat your date as you’d like to be treated.

–DFTM